We all know that girl… the one everyone thinks is a cold-hearted b*tch. It may because she doesn't smile as much as the other girls, or because her resting b*tch face is so damn convincing. Whatever it is, other women seem to avoid her like the plague, but men seem to flock to her. Why is that you ask? There’s 12 simple advantages to dating a b*tch… (psst… she probably isn’t a b*tch at all).
She Commands Respect and Will Respect You in Return
She knows who she is, wants she wants, and what she doesn’t, because of that she has no time for people who look down on her or are condescending. She won’t let anyone walk all over her, and she wants you to be just the same.
She Has Her Sh*t Together
Maybe not all of her sh*t, but she never has a problem cutting people or things out of her life that don’t bring her meaning and fulfillment — and that include you. So just know if you’re in her life, it’s because she wants you there.
She Can Hold It Together
So she didn’t get that promotion that she’s been gunning for, or that raise, or a friend has betrayed her… she won’t dwell on it. She’ll be sad for a day or two, then she’ll buck up and move the f*ck on.
It takes a special person to be able to deal with all the fierce emotions that comes with dating the b*tchy girl, but you should know that she’s never fake.
She Doesn’t Have Any Problem Putting Herself Out There
The people who never take risks are the ones who never get anywhere, and that’s not this girl. Is there a job she wants? She’ll call HR and ask for an interview? She wants a raise? She’ll set up an appointment with her boss and ask for it. And —let me guess— she was the one that approached you. She knows you have to put yourself out there in order to get anything you want.
There’s No Room for Second Guessing
Once a decision has been made, she’s going with it. There will be no second-guessing and no doubting. If it’s a mistake, oh well — live and learn. That’s what life is all about, and she’ll take the bull by the horns and live it to the fullest.
She Doesn't Have a Problem Calling You Out… or Anyone for That Matter
We all need to be called out every now and again, it’s important to know when what we’ve said offended someone or when what we’ve done has hurt someone’s feelings. Your friends may be too nice to let you have. The b*tchy girl you’re dating however…
There’s Never a Dull Moment
Because really, she could fly off at the handle at any moment in time. Her way of being spontaneous… shall we say?